Signs of an Unhealthy Relationship

As we grow and begin to engage in relationships, it is important to distinguish between a healthy and unhealthy relationship. Some examples of unhealthy relationships are found in popular TV shows like Jersey Shore, Teen Moms and The Real World. It is okay to watch and laugh at the silly things they do but it is also important to remember that these shows are shown for entertainment and NOT intended for examples to follow. With that said.... LET'S BEGIN!


Signs of an Unhealthy Relationship


Negative Attitude:

• constantly drawing negative conclusions
• expressing negativity through language and action
• constantly identifies the faults, bad, wrong or failures first
• constantly pessimistic or has a negative outlook

Controlling or manipulative:

• Fails to compromise
• excessively keeps track of where, when, why and who you're with
• gives you rules to follow
• tells you what to do instead of asking
• tells you who you can and can't talk to
• directly or indirectly says or does things to make you do what THEY want you to do
• leads you to do things you're not comfortable with 

*** If you say no, it means NO! (your decisions should ALWAYS be respected)  

Negative Criticism:

• Constantly provides negative criticism instead of positive compliments
• Negative criticism can be considered verbal abuse
• if the comments bring you down or hurt your feelings then it might be verbal abuse

Anger/upset/rage:

• Gets upset over minor things
• Has difficulty managing anger
• Anger leads into physical outburst (hitting someone/thing, breaking objects, grabbing, pushing, etc.)
• Raises voice in an angry manner which can lead to screaming, yelling or abusive language
• Has difficulty letting go of issues that cause anger

Physical violence:

• Any form of unwanted physical contact
• punches, hits, slaps, kicks or breaks objects out of anger

Keep these signs in mind, they may be an indication of an unhealthy relationship. If you are in an abusive relationship, the best thing is to get out of the relationship ASAP.   It might be difficult at first but it can be MUCH worse later. Have SELF-RESPECT and MORE LOVE for YOURSELF... Do NOT settle for a few moments of happiness. 

If you are having difficulty getting out of an unhealthy relationship, seek help!  


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Any questions? Feel free to ask us :)
You can also visit a great website on ending dating abuse. They have a lot of helpful information and resources. Visit LoveIsRespect. 




Stay safe,
Choices CAMP